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| Khadijah the Best Of Women |
She is a woman Hazrat world in his day. She is the daughter of Khuwailid bin Asad bin Abdul Uzza bin Qushai bin Kilab al-Qurasyiyah al-Asadiyah. Dubbed the ath-wathzy clean and pure. Lady Quraysh was born in the house noble and honorable about 15 years before the fill (the elephant). He grew up in a family of noble and in turn he becomes a woman who is intelligent and noble. He is known Alaihi Salam a strong and intelligent and has a great temperament. That's why many men of his people sympathetic to him.
At first he was married to Abu Halah bin Zurarah at-Tamimi, has two children named Halah and Hindun.Tatkala Abu Halah died, he married by Atiq bin Sa'id bin Abdullah al-Makhzum until some time but eventually they divorced .
After that, many of the leaders of Quraysh who he wants but he prioritizes his attention in educating their child, too busy taking care of business in which he became a wealthy man. Once, he had to find people who can sell his wares, but when he heard about Muhammad before bi'tsah (appointed to the Prophet), which has properties honest, trustworthy and honorable, he asked to him to sell his wares with an aide named maisarah. He gave merchandise to Muhammad in excess of what may otherwise be brought. Muhammad al-Amin was agreed and he went along Pruksarak and Allah makes a trade that is generating a lot of income. Khadijah was happy with the results that many businesses because of Muhammad, but the astonishment of the personality of Muhammad larger and deeper than all that. So they began to appear strange feelings that blend in mind, that he has never felt before. Youth is not sebagamana many other men and feelings of others.
But he was pessimistic; The young man could marry her, considering its age has reached 40 years? What will people say because he has closed the door to the Quraysh leaders who proposed to her?
So when he was confused and agitated because masalah that swings his mind, suddenly emerged a friend of his named Nafisa bint Munabbih, then he sat down and talked to the ingenuity Nafisa was able to uncover the secret that is masked by Khadija about the problems faced in life. Nafisa heartening Khadijah and soothe his feelings by saying that Khadijah is a woman who has dignity, the descendants of those honored, to own property and flawless anggun.Terbukti with many of the leaders of Quraish were proposed.
Furthermore, when Nafisa out of the house of Khadija, he immediately met Muhammad al-Amin to pass dialog that shows the cunning and craftiness:
Nafisa: What prevented thee to marry?
Muhammad: I do not have anything to marry.
Nafisa: (With a smile said) If I select for you a woman who is rich, beautiful and wealthy, then what are you willing to accept?
Muhammad: Who is she?
Nafisa: (He quickly answered) He was Khadijah bint Khuwailid
Muhammad: If he agrees, then I agree.
Nafisa went to Khadijah to convey the good news is, while Muhammad al-Amin uncles told him about his desire to marry Lady Khadija. Then went to Abu Talib, Hamza and others discover Khadijah's uncle named Amr bin Asad to apply Khadijah for his brother's son, and subsequently handed over a dowry.
After the ceremony was over, they killed several animals were then distributed to the needy people. Khadijah opened the door for family and friends, and among them there Alaihi Salam Halima Sadia, who came to witness the marriage of children susuannya. After that he returned to his village to take 40 goats Alaihi Salam a precious wedding gift from Khadijah, because previously he had been nursing Muhammad who is now a beloved husband.
So it was Hazrat Muhammad Quraishi Alaihi Salam the wife of al-Amin and be himself Alaihi Salam an example of the most important and most good in terms of loving husband and the husband put the interests of their own interests. While Muhammad Zaid bin Haritha expect, then dihadiahkanlah by Khadija to Muhammad. Likewise, when Muhammad wanted mengembil one of the son of his uncle, Abu Talib, then Khadijah provide a space for Ali bin Abi Talib radhiAllahu 'anhu that he could be modeled on probation her husband, Muhammad sallallaahu' alaihi wasallam.
He gives it in the form of household kebehagaian and deliciously rich, and mengkaruniakan to both sons and daughters named al-Qasim, Abdullah, Zainab, Ruqqayah, Umm Kulthum and Fatimah.
Then Allah Ta'ala make Muhammad al-Amin al-Siddiq like Seclusion (alone), but no more than an activity that he liked to be alone. He used his time to serve God in the Cave of Hira 'full month every year. He stayed in it a few nights with the provision that a little bit far from vain things done by people worship the idols and others.
Lady ath-wathzy not feel pressured by the actions of Muhammad who sometimes have to split away from him, nor did he expel kegalauannya with many questions and chatting useless, even he devotes all his ability to help her husband by maintaining and completing the task he should do at home . When he saw the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam went to the cave, his eyes always follow her husband loved from afar. In fact, she also asks people to take care of her without disturbing her husband who was aloof.
Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam lived in caves until the deadline Allah wills, then Jibril came to bring the glory of God while he in the cave of Hira' in the month of Ramadhan. Gabriel came to the Prophet brought wahyu.Selanjutnya beliay out of the cave to his home in the darkness of dawn in the state of fear, worry and shivered and said: "Selimutilah .Selimutilah I ... I ...".
After Khadijah asked for evidence about the events that befall the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam, he answered: "O Khadijah I fear for myself".
My wife loves it and that clever confidence and comfort with full confidence said: "Allah will keep us, O Abu Qasim, rejoice, O son of my uncle and courageous. For the sake of my soul is in the hands of his sugguh I hope that you are a prophet for this community. By Allah, He will not menghinakanmu forever, surely you have connected Hospitality, take a load of people in need, honoring the living and helping the perpetrators of truth.
So be careful Prophet was peace thanks to this support and his composure returned AS a justification of his wife and his faith in what he was carrying.
But it was not enough for a woman who is intelligent and wise, but he immediately went to his uncle's son named Waraqa ibn Nawfal, then tell her story of what happened on Muhammad sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam. So no speech that comes out of his mouth than the word "spirit ... .Qudus ... ..Demi the soul is in the hands of his Waraqa, if what you tell me is true, then it really has come to Namus Al-Kubra AS it has come to Moses and Jesus, and Noah eksklusif.Tatkala alaihi sallam saw the arrival of the Prophet, suddenly Waraqa said: "For the sake of my soul is in the hands of him, Behold, you are a prophet to the people, they would belie you, hurt you, cast thyself and will fight. Had I still find it today so I will help deen of Allah. "Then he came closer to him and kissed the top of his head. Then the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam said:" Are they going to leave? ". Waraqa replied:" That's right, none which leads Alaihi Salam you take unless there is definitely against it. If only I still get the time ... If only I was still alive ... ". Not long after Waraqa died.
Being calm soul of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam when listening to the narrative of Waraqa, and he knows that there will be constraints on the time of onset of preaching, many obstacles and burdens. He also realizes that it is sunnatullah for the Prophet and those who preach the Deen of Allah. Then he walked down a missionary with sincere solely because Allah the Lord of Alamin, and he got a lot of harassment and intimidation.
AS Khadijah was the one who first believed in Allah and His Messenger, and the first to enter Islam.
He is one of the Prophet's wife who loves her husband and also believe, stand to accompany the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam he loves to help, encourage and help him, help him to cope with the rigors of harassment and threats up with something that Allah lighten his load Nabi-Nya.Tidaklah get something that is not preferred, either rejection or denial sad he sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam except Allah clear the same with his wife when he returned to his home. He (Khadijah) reaffirms its stand, cheer, right, and reminiscent of the meaninglessness of human censure on his sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam.
And verses of Al-Quran also follow (affirming Allah), He said:
"O people up (blanket), Arise and warn! And thy Lord magnify, and purify your clothing, and leave off sinning, and do not give (with intent) to acquire (dozen) more. And for (Cause) thy Lord, be patient! "(Al-MUDDATHTHIR: 1-7).
Since then the noble Prophet start a new life full of blessings and ceremonies. He said to his wife, who believe that the time for sleep and having fun is gone. Khadijah radhiAllahu 'anha also preach Islam besides her husband -semoga Allaah bless our master to him. Among the first fruit is Islamic Zaid bin Haritha and her four daughters may Allah be pleased with them all.
Begin testing the hard befall the Muslims with a variety of shapes, but Khadija stood firm bak a mountain rigid and strong.
He created the Word of Allah Ta'ala:
"Do men think that they are allowed (only) say: 'We believe', while they will not be tested?" . (Al-'Ankabut: 1-2).
God chose the first of his two sons and Abdullah al-Qasim to meet God when they were still children, while Khadijah remain patient. He also sees with his eyes how the first martyr in Islam named Sumayyah when facing death's door because the thaghut to torment his soul overlooking the creator of glory.
He also had to part with her baby daughter and named Rukayya wife of Uthman bin Affan radhiAllahu 'anhu because her daughter fled to Ethiopia to save Dien state of disorder Pagans. He witnessed from time to time filled with great events and hostility. However, there is no word desperate for a Mujahidah.
He exercised at any time what God Almighty:
"You shall certainly be tested in your possessions and yourselves. And (also) you will certainly hear from those who were given the Book before you and from those who associate partners with God, disruptions that many hurtful. If you are patient and cautious, surely, that it was included in priority affair ". (Ali Imran: 186).
Previously, he has also witnessed the entire incident that happened to her husband, al-Amin al-Siddiq, where he preached in the way of Allah, but his face all the disasters with patience. Increasing the weight progressively increased test the patience and strength. He threw the entire world kesanangan deceptive inducements to be offered with a sound belief. And at that moment that he swore an oath to show firmness in establishing the truth that has never known them before and did not budge from its principles even one step ants.
He said: "By Allah, O uncle! If they could put the sun in my right hand and the moon in my left hand so I leave the affairs of this propaganda, so once again I'm not going to leave it up to God to win it or I perish karenannya".
 That Lady Mujahidah took her husband the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam Alaihi Salam an example of the most general and most obvious sign of robustness over faith. Therefore, we get when people of Quraysh announced their boycott against the Muslims to press in the political, economic and social ostracism and they wrote the script and then paste them on the walls of the temple; Khadijah did not hesitate to join the Muslims, together with the Abu Talib and he left his hometown to forge patience for three years with the Messenger and those who participated in his face weight boycott filled with troubles and facing the arbitrariness of the pagans. To end the boycott which was his encounter with faith, sincere and tireless steely determination. Indeed Lady Khadija was his ability to face the test at the age of 65 years. Lapse of six months after the end of the boycott was riding Abu Talib, then followed a Mujahidah the patient may Allah be pleased with dia- three years before the Hijrah.
With the death of Khadijah then meningkatlah calamity that Rasul face. Because of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam, Khadijah is a friend who is sincere in fighting for Islam.
That soul has gone overlooking Popcorn Muthmainnah after arriving at the appointed time, after he managed to become the best and most sincere exemplary in preaching in the way of Allah and Jihad in His Cause. Drawing this connection, he became a wise wife, then he is able to put affairs in accordance with the place and devote all kemamapuan to bring the pleasure of Allah and His Messenger. That's why he is entitled to the greeting of his Lord and receive the good news of home in paradise made of gold, there is no trouble in it, and have no commotion inside. Hence the Prophet said: "The best woman was Mary, daughter of Imran, the best of women is Khadijah bint Khuwailid".
Khadijah bint Khuwailid Pray and ask Allah, AS-Sayyida Ath-wathzy. A wife who is loyal and sincere, mukminah Mujahidah in street fighter with all his possessions from the treasury of the world. May Allah reward the best because of his services to Islam and Muslims.
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